What are some signs he could be cheating on me? This is a question that I get asked often. I will discuss ways in which to catch a cheat in the act. If you suspect that your man is cheating, then you need to take matters into your own hand in order to uncover the truth.
If you know what to look for, there will be plenty of clues that will lead you to his deceitful ways. So just what are some signs he could be cheating on you?
Before I discuss some of these signs, let me say that you need to first prepare yourself for whatever “truths” you may find. If you are not at this place mentally, I suggest you start by preparing yourself in case you uncover facts that prove his infidelity.
You are better off not seeking the truth, if you are unprepared to act accordingly once the truth reveals itself. Hopefully this truth will be that you have a faithful man, and the only action needed is for you to begin doing the little things you once did when you first fell in love.
It is extremely important that you reach this place before you start using the tips mentioned below.
Here they are:
• Receipts in Pockets – When he is wining and dining his new lover, there is a very good possibility that he will leave receipts in his pockets that may reveal his deceitful ways. You have to be vigilant about consistently checking his pockets after a night out or hours away.
• Changing Work Habits – It is proven and documented that men will use work as one of their biggest cover ups to carry on their affair. Take notes of his changing work schedule to see if there are any new patterns emerging. Is he working extremely late only on Thursdays? During an affair, the lovers will usually like some kind of stability in knowing that they will see each other the same time each week.
• Secretive About Cell Phone – If there is only sign he is cheating that you pick up, be sure it is this one. The cell phone is the next best thing when two lovers are not seeing each other, so in order to communicate about their recent tryst or finalize their upcoming rendezvous they will most likely use their phone numerous times each week to accomplish these feats. Once again, be consistent when observing their phone activities so that you can pick up on the clues that will lead you to the truth.
There are literally hundreds of signs he is cheating, but trying to figure out all of them at one time will only confuse you and complicate matters. Learn to hone in on a few important clues and then master the art of interpreting these clues.
Eventually, if you are diligent and he is having an affair, you will come across the information needed to satisfy your suspicions. Be patient and keep living life to the best of your ability. It is important to keep a healthy balance in your life so that you do not become consumed or overwhelmed by your suspicions.
Please keep browsing around this site because there are plenty more cheating signs he may leave behind while he is stepping out on your relationship.