Infidelity Forum

Where Cheating Spouses Are Discussed

Welcome to the Surviving Infidelity forum.  Infidelity is rampant in marriages today and without help and guidance it very difficult to get through these difficult times.

I have been on both sides of the fence when it comes to cheating, so I have personally contributed to the pain of others, but I also know the pain that I had to endure when I was cheated on.  

The helpless feeling would keep me up at nights, and I didn’t know where to turn to get the answers that I was looking for. 

Sure there were books that covered cheating and infidelity, but it didn’t touch home like hearing it from someone else that was going through the same things as I was.

Can a marriage survive infidelity?  With the help of others, it certainly can if both spouses are on the same page.

Share Your Story in the Infidelity Forum

This cheating spouse forum is here to give you the opportunity to ask the difficult questions to others that have gone through what you are now experiencing.  

Browse the many posts on infidelity or leave one on a specific topic that you want answered.  Hopefully you will learn how to get over infidelity with the help of others.

Your emotions are going wild, and there are absolutely no bad questions when it comes to trying to overcome infidelity. 

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In Limbo - "Is it time to move on in life..."? 
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I Still Can't Believe That She Was Cheating On Me All This Time. I Need Your Advice PLEASE! 
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I've changed after being cheated on. Has this happened to anyone else? 
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Why is my husband such a liar? My gut is telling me he is being unfaithful. 
Why is my husband such a liar? It seems that everything that comes out of his mouth lately is a lie. I'm starting to believe he is either a pathological …

My wife is addicted to Facebook and I'm worried she is talking to someone else... 
For the past 3 months or so, my wife is completely addicted to Facebook, and it is causing a problem in our marriage. She is constantly stuck, face first …

How Long Does it Take to Rebuild Trust After Being Cheated On 
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My Girlfriend Flirts too Much - "I need your advice" 
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Is Kissing Considered Cheating? My Wife Kissed a Co-Worker 
I would like to know what everyone thinks about kissing. Is kissing considered cheating and would you leave your spouse if you found out that he/she kissed …

What do I do if I suspect my wife of cheating? 
I am looking for advice on what to do if I suspect my wife of cheating. I have been uncovering little clues and I have certainly seen things that I believe …

My husband cheated on a party bus while drunk 
My Husband Cheated on a Party Bus While He Was Drunk I have been married for 3 years now. We live in Las Vegas, and my husband and I usually party …

Signs of a Habitual Cheater? Am I Dealing with a Habitual Cheater? 
I read the page on dealing with a habitual cheater and as I read on, I began to feel the worse feeling in my stomach. I caught my husband cheating twice …

My husband divorcing me when I found out I had metastatic breast 
I would tell my story of my husband divorcing me when I found out I had metastatic breast cancer but I don't know where to write it. A preview: My husband …

My Husband Has Confessed About Kissing a Co-Worker 
My husband and I have been going through a rough patch for the last 6 months. It is clear that we haven't been as connected as we use to be. Let me …

So lost and broken, how could she do this!! Not rated yet
Hello, I have just found out my wife has been cheating on me, after almost 20 years of marriage. There had been signs, but I have chose to believe her, …

Why can't my girlfriend answer simple questions? Is she cheating? Not rated yet
She wanted some space. She insisted on knowing what cinema I would be at and what time on Saturday night and suggested I stop at my moms that night, when …

Please I'm Desperate! I Think My Girl Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice Not rated yet
Hello, One of my friends has recommended this site, and said that I may get the advice I’m looking for, so here's my problem. Me and my girlfriend …

After 7 years of marriage I no longer trust my husband. Not rated yet
After 7 years of marriage, my trust is starting to dwindle I recently went out with my husband and our 7 children on Easter Sunday and as I got in the …

I Was Diagnosed With Stage 3 Early Onset Breast Cancer, All While My Fiance Is Cheating On Me Not rated yet
I was diagnosed with stage 3 early onset breast cancer three months ago, I am 47. I have just found out My 'fiance' of ten years(guess that duration hints …

Why would someone be a habitual cheater? Not rated yet
Why would someone be a habitual cheater? I have been cheated on in almost all of my relationships, and they were all pretty much the same story. The men …

I Think He Cheated at a Strip Club! Not rated yet
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Broken and Confused - Can We Fall Back in Love? Not rated yet
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Sad&Angry- My Husband Had a One Night Fling Not rated yet
My husband cheated. Long story short, there was no sex or any emotional affair going on. This was a one night "thing" that he states he stopped and walked …

I really don't know if he as been cheating in the past... Not rated yet
Hello i dont really know if he is i been cheating in the past he told me he hasnt ever cheated on me or thought about it he delated face book for me n …

Saddened Not rated yet
I discovered my husband of 34 yrs has had two affairs. One in our early marriage and one lasting 6yrs ending April 2014. I am struggling with the deceit …

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betrayed for years Not rated yet
a month a go I found out that my husband had sex with a coworker after a work get together. He only confessed because he thought he had caught something. …

YOU CHEWED UP MY HEART JUST TO STEAL MY GOOD AND SPIT ME OUT  Not rated yet
FOR 5 YEARS U DID NOTHING TO EVEN REMOTELY ATTEMPT TO ACKNOWLEDGE MY NEEDS. ANYTHING INVOLVING GIVING TO ME WAS ABSOLUTELY FOREIGN TO YOU. ALL YOU DID …

I am confused About My Wife's Infidelity - Not Sure If the Lying or Actual Cheating Hurt More Not rated yet
Not Sure If the Lying or Actual Cheating Hurt More I recently found out about an affair that my wife had. I only found out because she left the computer …

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5 Quick Tips For a Healthier Relationship

  • Make sure you make time to laugh. Laughing is chicken soup for the soul.  
  • Make time to be intimate in your relationship.  Often times we take it this for granted but marriages that lack sex are more prone to encounter infidelity.  Don’t underestimate the power of a big hug and a kiss. 
  • Never cross the line of respect. Make sure this is upheld even during disagreements.
  • Learn something new about your spouse every chance you get.  We are all very complex and there will always be opportunities to see a new side to your partner.
  • Make the household chores a partnership.  It doesn't have to be exactly even but you should both feel comfortable with the agreement. 

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